Giveaway: The Mystery of the Silver Statue

The Mystery of the Silver Statue

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The Mystery of the Silver Statue by Raymond C. Perkins Jr. adds mystery to history when two young super sleuths, Jimmy and B.T., crack a code to help them in the search for long lost treasures.  Along the way they meet danger and suspense, which keeps the 9-12 year old readers turning the pages.  It is the first in a series of “history-mysteries” that is sure to be enjoyed by moms, dads and kids.

The book is based on true historical events and provides readers with a wonderful mystery surrounding Rogers’ Rangers during the French and Indian War.  The boys have the keys to uncover what happened to the said to be stolen, silver statue.  They are faced with modern-day struggles and learn more about themselves and each other during their hunt for the historical treasure.

Ray Perkins, Author of “The Mystery of the Silver Statue” and soon to be released, “The Mystery of the Brick Kingdom” is seen with granddaughter, Kaelani. For more information, please visit http://mystery4me.com

Giveaway has ended! Winner was Marilyn from VA.

Giveaway: Barkley, Secret Service Dog and The Purple Diamonds

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We are giving away one copy of Barkley, The Secret Service Dog and The Purple Diamonds to one lucky reader! Barkley, Secret Service Dog and The Purple Diamonds is the first in the Barkley, Secret Service Dog Children’s Chapter Book Series. The book is fun and easy to read book for kids ages 8-12 who love to scout out criminals and for those who enjoy a little mystery. Creator – HK Gilbert and Co-creator – Misty Taggart have truly captured a fun and engaging storyline your young reader will get hooked on!

Our giveaway starts 8-15-2011 and will end at midnight on 8-23-2011 with our winner to be announced on 8-24-2011. All you need to do to enter is fill out the form below. You will need to take a look at our digital magazine found here to find out what page Barkley is featured on and share that answer with us on our giveaway form below. One winner will be selected at random using Random.org. Entering multiple times will void all of your entries. Only ONE entry PER HOUSEHOLD and entries are only valid for USA addresses.

GIVEAWAY HAS ENDED!

Winner is Marion M. from Florida.

Another Reason to Stay Engaged With Your Kids This Summer

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Summer is really here. No more scheduled homework nights, no more packing lunches, and no more worrying about teacher reports and whether your child turned in their homework. We are not worry free though. The CDC has just released a report which is startling to parents of tweens and teens. The report is below, but first,
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The CDC lists prescription drug abuse as the fastest growing drug problem among 12-17 year olds. One in four high school students in the U.S. admits to having taken a prescription drug without a prescription. The number of teens going into treatment for addiction to prescription drugs has increased by more than 300%. Emergency room visits for prescription drug abuse have more than doubled since 2004. 48% of all ER visits for prescription drug abuse are by young people ages 12-20. Prescription drugs are now involved in more overdose deaths than heroin and cocaine, combined.

The National Family Partnership is concerned that parents may be drug suppliers over the summer without even knowing it. If you aren’t talking to your kids, and trying to give them a “summer off”, you could be setting them up to become involved with prescription drugs. With the end of the school year, children look forward to a long break and a lot of time at home alone. Substance abuse has been noted to increase with long school breaks especially among those teens with little supervision. NFP (National Family Partnership) goes on to report:

 

  • 70% of teens who abuse Rx drugs get them from family and friends.
  • 68% of households do not properly secure their Rx medications.
  • Studies show that unmonitored kids are four times more likely to engage in substance abuse.
  • The distressed employment market makes it harder for teens to find summer jobs, leading to more boredom, restlessness and free time.
  • A new study surveyed 2,500 high school students and reported that one in four admitted to abusing Rx drugs.

This is frightening especially if you are a single parent of a tween or teen with little means to afford camps and other summer programs. The main things you can do, no matter what your income, are:

  • Safeguard all medicines by monitoring quantities and controlling access. Remove drugs from your medicine cabinet and lock them up.
  • Talk to your tweens and teens about the dangers of prescription drugs. Remind them that they are just as dangerous, addictive and lethal as street drugs. Studies show that teens dangerously view prescription drugs as “safer” to abuse than illicit drugs.
  • Properly dispose of old or expired medicines in the trash. Hide or mix them with cat litter or coffee grounds before throwing them away.
  • Don’t have kids at home? What about your grandchildren, nieces and nephews, and your friends’ kids that visit your house?
  • Consider help from resources such as www.truecare.net. They have information about how to talk to your children and how to keep them safe with text messages and social networks. They are also able to help you by alerting you if your child is engaging in unsafe texts or websites. I work with this company and they have saved the lives of many at-risk youth.

Summer will always hold special memories of being free and “on vacation.” You can allow your child those memories of freedom and vacation, but you need to talk to them and let them know you are very much engaged in their life. Parents who set boundaries and have expectations for their children, raise children who are responsible and connected to their family.
Mary Jo Rapini, MEd, LPC, is a licensed psychotherapist and co-author with Janine J. Sherman, of Start Talking: A Girl’s Guide for You and Your Mom About Health, Sex or Whatever. Read more about the book at www.StartTalkingBook.com and more about Rapini at www.maryjorapini.com.

Unleash Your Inner Designer

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Do you have a creative young girl who loves to design her own clothing?  Does she have you sewing things for her left and right?  Is she ready to take it to the next step?  If so, you have to check out this amazing site I found that targets girls ages 5-12.  Fashion Playtes is an online clothing design studio!  The girls are able to create their very own clothing line that they can wear or give as personalized gifts to their friends!  Fashion Playtes offers a fun, creative outlet for self-expression and engaging shared experiences.

The process is quite simple too!  All you have to do is select your garment, color and embellish!  Once you are finished with your design, save it and it appears in your closet.  You then can try it on, make accessories, and when complete, make your purchase!  It is a great and fun way to share in some mother/daughter bonding.

For more information, visit www.fashionplaytes.com and begin designing with your daughter today!

Tween Care: Prepares Young Girls

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Tween Care is a brand focusing on preparing young girls for all phases of their youth. With this, our skin care collection: Facial Daily Cleanser, Moisturizer, Toner, Acne Wash and Scrub. Along with a bath and body collection: Conditioning Shampoo, Body Gel and Body Lotion. Along with flavours and fragrances such as Wild N Sassy, Razzy Dazzy Diva, Big Dreams Coconut Cream, Simply Beautiful, Drama Free & Clear, Citrus Quencher, Lemon Slushy and Start Fresh scents that say it’s fine to express the real YOU. Tween Care products do not contain Parabens, Frangrances, Artifical Colors and Never Animal Tested.

Tween Care’s First Period Kits was designed as a conversation starter between a daughter and parent, to discuss those changes that are happening to her body and to just prepare her for whats to come. This, First Period Kit features the T.C. First Period Guide, a 16 page booklet with information about periods and puberty; Tween Care’s Limonade Sorbet scented Body Spray, great for a pick me up through the day; A stylish multi-colored multipurpose cosmetic bag; A pair of Disposable Panties, just in case you start your period while on the go; Feminine protection samples and hand wipes.

For more information on these products, visit TweenCare.com

Talking to kids about money

In light of the current economic turn, have you discussed how to handle money with your children? I was thinking back to when I was younger and that topic of money and the family budget was never discussed. We just always assumed we were rich! Well, at 7 years old in the early 70′s anything over a dollar made you rich! We were never really taught to ‘save’ our money. It wasn’t until I wanted to get married that I really learned how to budget and that was because we had to pay for our own wedding. We had to come up with $18,000.00 on our own. That meant, everything we made went right into our wedding fund. So that got me thinking. Two months ago we sat down with the kids and explained our situation to them. We told that that things were going to change and that they were going to start to see the changes. That meant, no more fast food just because, that meant, no more going to the movies on the first day it opened, that meant, no expensive clothing, that meant, if we went into a store, they would not be leaving with anything other than the food we went in to go and get. It was a lot for them to take in, but they have adjusted beautifully! When we go out, I tell them, the only way they can buy something is if they buy it with their own money.

My oldest who is now 11 saves her money and really puts a lot of thought into whether or not she wants to buy something. Half the time she puts what she ‘thought’ she ‘wanted’ back because then she won’t have as much money. You can totally see the wheels turning when she realizes she won’t have as much money and it really makes me proud to see that she has started to determine a want from a need at such an early age. Perhaps if I was taught that at her age, I wouldn’t be in this situation I am currently in.

My son on the other hand is going to be 8 and he still wants things right then and there. However, he knows that he doesn’t have the money because he can’t save any money over $5.00 without spending it. I am consistent with him and I hope that he too will catch on that you can’t always get what you want when you want it and that you do have to save for things that are important to you. That he too will be able to to determine a want from a need.

My youngest amazes me too! She is going to be 5 and when we go out, she picks up things left and right, holds them through out the store and when it is time to leave, I have told her we are not getting that about 5 times and as we approach the registers she very nicely tells me that maybe Santa can get that for her, to which I reply with a simple, “maybe”.

What have been the conversations like with your children? Are you open with your family budget to a degree that they will understand? We currently have two “Family Fund” jars on our kitchen counter and what ever loose change the kids find laying around, they decide which “Fund” is more important to them and put the money in it to some day be able to go into the store and purchase exactly what they have saved up for. One fund is to redecorate their bathroom (we have a babyish looking bathroom that does need updating now that they are not babies) and they have already picked out what they want to decorate with! The other is for a dinner at our favorite restaurant, Texas Roadhouse! We love their food and it always costs us an arm and leg when we have been able to go. By saving and working as a family for two things that we ‘want’ to do, it is bringing us closer together and the kids are playing an active role in the family budget and they too have a sense of pride when we reach our goals.

The paperwork; it's overwhelming!

My daughter is entering middle school, aka for us older parents, junior high. When did it change from being called “junior high” to “middle school” is beyond me, but either way the amount of paperwork probably changed as well. Seriously, I have about 30 sheets of ‘registration’ papers to fill out and read. Half of it is so confusing that I will have to make a phone call and speak with a live person to figure out what I have to do to make sure she is enrolled this year. Does she have to take chorus? Why do I need to make out 5 separate checks when they are all made out to the same people? You provide a payment plan, but don’t put anything in the % area. Can I make up my own payment schedule? You don’t have to pay the yearbook fee right now, but it will be the only time you can order a yearbook…so in a round about way, it means, if you want a year book, this is your only chance to get one, so you better pay now or forever hold your peace. You need medical forms filled out by this day, vision forms filled out by another day, dental forms another day…can’t you just say, all doctor, vision, and dental forms must be filled out and returned to the school by this day or your child cannot attend school. We are mailing out registration forms to make it easier for you…for who? If it is like this now and she is only going into “middle school”, I can only imagine the nightmare I am going to have for High School! I feel like I am answering the same questions 30 times! People please…go easy on the forms, the paperwork…do we really need the repetitions? School starts on August 25, pictures are the 26th. No time to get situated at a new school, lets just throw in the photographer right away. Ugh, ok, I better get back to filling out this paperwork that I have buried myself in!